Awesome, awesome book!
Connecting by
Larry CrabbMy rating:
5 of 5 starsExcellent book on connecting with others and using community to help heal each other and develop a deeper intimacy with God. We can be there for each other and encourage each other to grow through the trials and difficulties we encounter.
"So Adam, and all his descendants with him, struck out on his own, independent from God, dependent on self, all because he did not believe God could be
that good. We have all since committed ourselves to seeing how we can manage without connecting with a God we don't fully trust."
"We experience fear (maybe I don't have what it takes), rage (it's just not fair that I am not able to get what I need), and demandingness (someone better come through!)."
"...basic life strategy, continuing to do whatever creates personal pleasure and working hard to avoid whatever brings pain."
"We are strongly inclined...to depend on ourselves and prove that we have something of value within us, to come up with a manageable plan to handle life's challenges, to protect ourselves from whatever might frustrate that plan, and to experience a sense of internal well-being that we were designed to enjoy. And these four sets of pressing passions lie behind our more visible problems."
"As we give up what we wrongly depend on to maintain our sense of well-being, we're dying to death, but it seems as though we're dying to life."
"We are instructed to die to the flesh, to identify, despise, confess, and resist whatever urges are within us that direct us to something or someone other than Christ for the experience of life."
"Our souls were built for a satisfaction that only heaven can provide. Then the ache will finally be gone."
"Our fiercest battles are fought when we seek with all our heart to
trust God so fully that we see every misfortune as something he permits and wants to use, to
know him so richly that we turn to no one and nothing else to experience what our souls long to enjoy, to
love him so completely and with such consuming passion that we hate anything that comes between us and eagerly give it up."